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Sunday, 10 August 2014

Don't tell tales the meaning

Where does "Don't tell tales" come from?" Anyone know? 

Why is this saying used in state schools and general life when dealing with children? I often question this saying and how it puts children in danger from bad people. It protects the BULLY and not the VICTIM! Children must be taught to speak out about bullying/abuse, NOT GAGGED!

WHY ARE BULLIES PROTECTED?

I remember my old friends eldest boy standing up for my little girl, because his younger brother had hit her. Instead of my friend telling her little boy off, she said to her eldest son "DON'T TELL TALES." I was horrified and questioned "Why was she protecting the bully and not congratulating the hero for speaking out about his bullying younger brother?"

When Melody was in state school she suffered bullying from some teachers and children. I had to fight to get her moved class and recall the headmaster writing to me and telling me that "CHILDREN TELL TALES!" Well I was horrified. He also told me it would not be possible to move my little girl to another class, because some of the other children would want to be moved too. I wrote back and told him that the saying "Don't tell tales" is a way for adults and children to get away with bullying victims and this is a very dangerous saying. The teacher bully tried to force my daughter to write with her left hand. She was suffering from terrible anxiety attacks, I had to take her to the GP, because she was so stressed out about going to school and told the teacher. He told me "HE WAS STRESSED OUT BECAUSE HE HAD TO TEACH 30+ CHILDREN." I felt sorry for him because I had spoken to many teachers who were stressed out about the school checks, but thankfully not all teachers are bullies! And no child should suffer from bullying!

My daughters thoughts on bullying 
I want you to listen to Melody's made up Maths Rap, which she created when her bullying teacher forced her to say her times tables out loud in class, knowing full well she struggled with them. And how the children laughed and made fun of her. She went off to the bathroom and cried her little heart out. I refuse to let anyone bully a child this way. State school, as author Terry Deary proved through Horrible Histories, is a place of bullying, not a place of learning! School was invented to keep children off the streets!


At the end of this video, author of Horrible Histories, Terry Deary, asks the question
"WHY DO PEOPLE BEHAVE THE WAY THEY DO?"


I would like to know how many children bullied in state school ended up being bullies to survive? I know one mother who admits she ended up being a bully because it was the only way to get through bullying state school. She was also bullied by a teacher and children.

DICTIONARY MEANING OF "TELL TALES"

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/tell+tales
1.
a person who heedlessly or maliciously reveals private orconfidential matters; tattler; talebearer.
2.
a thing serving to reveal or disclose something.

As you can see from the dictionary, victims of bullying are not allowed to speak out! They are punished for being tell tales (i.e. no one is allowed to tell the truth and protect themselves from bullying!) No wonder poor Princess Diana was treated so badly, why did the public not protect her?

"If Diana had been living in medieval times, she would have had her head chopped off." - Dickie Arbiter, former press spokesperson for the Queen


As you can see from the above "Women are not allowed to speak out about their cheating husbands!"
http://www.cbc.ca/passionateeye/episodes/diana-her-true-story


PRINCESS DIANA HAD A HEART, DIFFERENT TO THE ROYALS WE HAVE TODAY!
We need real role models who respect children, mothers and family life. 

Charles couldn't give them the same tenderness as Diana. The source for this certainly laid in his childhood. As a small boy he was not allowed to show any feelings. And so it is no miracle that he wanted to raise William and Harry as proper men. Charles went hunting or fishing with them. He was proud when they caught a hare or had good grades at sport. Charles clapped his oldest on the back with a wink, as he was caught at 14 with a bottle of champagne on school grounds, and his first sexual contact with girls was talked about.

http://www.princess-diana.com/diana/children.htm

SAVE THE CHILDREN (FAKE CHARITY)
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2028329/Banned-Ken-Loach-charity-documentary-Save-The-Children-Fund-shown-42-years.html

Maggie Tuttle from www.childrenscreamingtobeheard.com told me that Save the Children is another fake charity. Maybe this is why Princess Diana wanted nothing to do with helping Princess Anne, because as we all know Princess Diana really cared about children and people in general. 


War rape! What sort of people ignore this?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/War_rape


PROBLEMS WE CAN SOLVE

When I see a problem, I question "How can we fix it?" We can fix anything if we try. That includes creating camcorders that last, ha ha! But then they would not make as much money out of us, would they! The problem we currently have is the lack of team players, people who really care about children and women and want to protect them. As mothers, fathers and grandparents we need to think of all children and what sort of future are they going to have if we do not debate important issues, which are destroying children and family life. So here is my solution. I would like to see fathers turning into real heroes and fighting for their little girls to have a better future. Imagine how proud we could all be if fathers started fighting against things that are destroying family life. And if mothers did the same because children need heroines too! On the following blog I talk about a website, which will protect children and save family life. All we need is a team!

http://www.butterflylullaby.blogspot.co.uk/2014/08/free-support-for-mothers-women.html

If you could be a Superhero, what would you do? I think I need to add stop bullying to my Super Mummy Poster! I need a team of people with the same morals and values to make sure our children have a brighter and happier future. Email Sharon: nevertooldforlegoATgmail.com


PLEASE SIGN THIS LETTER AND PROTECT ALL CHILDREN
http://www.stopthekinseyinstitute.org/sign-the-letter/

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2183184/Outrage-school-banned-sex-education-porn-cartoon-children-aged-FIVE.html

MOTHERS AND FAMILIES NEED YOUR HELP
www.unitedpass.co.uk


DO YOU TRUST YOUR DENTIST?
Thanks to www.thegirlagainstfluoride.com I have managed to help improve my daughters health by cutting out fluoride. Fluoride made Melody, my daughter, ill.  Fluoride is bad for asthma! Whenever she brushed her teeth it stressed her out because she could not stop coughing up huge amounts of phlegm. In Wales our drinking water is not fluoridated. I called Welsh Water to double check and they told me although the water is not fluoridated at the moment, they are trying to add fluoride to it. I said "They can't do that, because it is a poison!" The lady on the other end of the phone replied "I KNOW!"  Growing pains, similar to what Melody had are related to Fluoride! The fact is you do not have to listen to me. Just do your research. Our kids need their parents to have an open and free mind because their future depends on us! And whatever you do, do not let the dentist coat your child's teeth with fluoride varnish, this is extremely toxic. I am fuming that a temp dentist put this muck on my little girls teeth. The girl against fluoride is taking the Irish Government to court to stop them putting poison in their water. We need to protect our children and help her win!

CHILDREN, MOTHERS AND FAMILIES DESERVE HELP! PROMOTE AND PROTECT!

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