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Tuesday, 18 October 2011

Sorry Wales lost the Rugby to France but well done France

I felt sorry for the girls today in work as they were so looking forward to Wales winning the Rugby this year.

Out of all the women I know in Wales I am probably the only one that is not into sports at all. For me sports is not important! And it reminds me too much of life on how everything is about winning and being the best Country, best person etc. Men are so competitive, some cannot even play a game with their children without winning.

If France wins the Rugby maybe someone will come across this photograph of my Great Grandmother who was part French Burmese and shed some light on our family history. Her name was Winifred Josephine Myles nee Melson.

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Monday, 17 October 2011


Do you have real family values? What are your family values and how far are you willing to go to protect the ones you love and the children that need protection?

If your child and other children were to lose their school field and butterfly meadow would you put yourself out to try and help them and save it? If you lived in an area where you had different nationalities and it was the last school field in the area, would you try and save it for the children?

If a child loves both it's parents, but the parents do not get along all the time because of different values in life, would you not try harder to make things work and try to change that person so your child can have a happier life? People tell me children are resilient and they bounce back. Where I am sitting I can see a lot of selfish adults who are just thinking about themselves and not the children. In some cases if a partner drinks, takes drugs, is very abusive then yes you have to get out of the relationship if they do not want to seek help and change. There are a lot of parents that cheat and this is not showing children true family values.

My little girl said to me "Mummy, pinky swear you will never leave Daddy." I have been trying to change him for over 10 years. He is not a bad person, but changes have to be made for us to get out of the mess we are in. To be a parent you have to be responsible! I feel that I am getting somewhere now as he is starting to realise that life would be a lot better if we all worked as a team to get our life on track. We have a beautiful world and we need to treasure it and work together to make a happier and brighter life for everyone.

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Burma Aung San Suu Kyi give her power to rule the Burmese people

Whilst most British Women say "we can't do anything to change the government, so why try." There is Aung San Suu Kyi a Burmese women to be proud of who has given her life to support the Burmese people and give them back humanity. Has she really spent 30 years of her life trying to save her people. What a wonderful women. Something I would have liked the Queen of England to do for the children that suffer in the UK and need support. If Aung San Suu Kyi had the money and power the Queen has just think what a change she could make in our world. I know she would not sit back quietly with her luxury wealthy life style while the Government and Councils take our school fields and butterfly meadows! Aung San Suu Kyi is a women with morals just like my Great Grandmother and Nan. I am proud to be part Burmese and I hope she will prove to the world that we all need to team up and work together for better future for all children.

The one thing that concerns me is Burma's oil. If there was no oil would Countries offer to help this Country and their people? There is obviously a lot of money to be made in Burma as it is a great tourist attraction. I have not come across one rich and wealthy person with morals so forgive me for being a sceptic. Aung San Suu Kyi please do not trust anyone. Be on your guard and do what is best for your Country. Above all remember people with money find it very hard to want more.

I would like Aung San Suu Kyi to rule the Burmese people and to make sure her people are not brainwashed with European ways. Women that believe in non violence are the true leaders! They think with their brain. Women and Mothers need to start thinking about their children and how society is brainwashing them.

Our children need to go back to old fashioned values and stop dressing and acting like adults. Our Mothers need to put their foot down and tell the Government that they have rights to protect their child from the outside world. That means creating a subscription only service on the Internet for things that are not child friendly. A subscription only service for things on Sky etc that is not child friendly. I do not want my child to ever come across adult sites and chat rooms, this by law should be well hidden from children. And as for page 3 in News papers this shows the lack of respect for women and children and it needs to stop. I was not amused to see workmen in the school canteen with this paper open on page 3. Apart from being disgusted and humiliated. I thought what hope have our children got, all the CRB checks are done but where are peoples morals?

I would like to see British Women and Mothers following in Aung San Suu Kyi footsteps. Showing the world we don't need violence. And as a Mother we have the right to say no to certain things pushed on us. I want to see the Internet change and to have a paid subscription service for adult sites and all that muck. That stuff should be well away from children and Mothers that find it insulting, humiliating and degrading.

I have had a 10 year verbal fight against this sort of stuff. There are people that don't talk to me any more because I stand up for my rights as a Mother and as a women. There have been people that try to bully me to shut up and have stopped me trading. I thought it was the French side that gave me the strength to fight back, but actually is it the Burmese side from my Great Nan and my Nan. Proud to be part Burmese because it stands for something to be proud of. Most British people expect you to put up and shut up. But putting up and shutting up does not bring change. If we do not talk about these problems they will never go away. Well if Aung San Suu Kyi can make changes in her world, I am sure I can make changes in mine. Goodbye Essex girls and hallo family values.

My Great Nan died for her children. She was part Burmese/French.

The above vintage photograph is of my Great Grandmother who died to save her children from poverty. She was Burmese/French and lived in Rangoon where my Nan was born. Nan was made to sleep and eat in a shed because her English Grandparents refused to take their dead son's children because they were mixed race. This sadly is the problem with our world. Good luck Aung San Suu Kyi I hope you get help from a Country that truly supports you and your people and has morals.


I believe you have to work at any relationship but sadly all the British people I talk to believe you should walk away. I believe you should put your child first and sadly I have not met anyone else with the same values to date. In the UK if a relationship is difficult you walk away and your children grow up with single parents. If the child is not at risk and loves both parents then my view is that you have to try harder and make it work for your child's sake. This is the same with our world, we all need to try harder for a better future for all children.

My Step Dad is a man I am proud of. If only there were more like him. Maybe there are, it is just that I have not come across many. When my Auntie told him about my Mother's mental illness before marrying her, he said "you are not going to get rid of me that easily." He has stayed with my Mum and been a real farther to us for nearly 40 years. Because of him I got to grow up knowing my Mum is not a bad person because she is ill from mental illness, she is a loving and kind person who has had bad things happen to her, which has effected her mental health. I adore my Mother and Step Farther who I call Dad. My Dad (step Dad) shows true sacrifice and these are the sort of people we need to Govern our world, people with morals.


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Robert Hartland Stanley Myles English family history

My Great Grandfarther was English his name was Robert Hartland Stanley Myles. He was born around 1st June 1887 somewhere in London. He married my Nan's Mother Winifred Josephine Melson who then became Winifred Josephine Myles nee Melson on 23rd June 1908. They were married at the Registrars Office Malacca Straits Settlement in Burma.

Nan was born in Rangoon, Burma and her Mother sadly took her own life to save her and brothers from poverty. They were shipped from Burma to England where they were fostered, as the Grandparents did not want mixed race Grandchildren. Sadly as we see all over the world not all church people believe in the same God. They were made to sleep and eat in a shed and treated like servants. Back then the English authorities did not batter an eye lid at their suffering. Thankfully things have sort of changed now. Although there is still a lot of room for change as compassion does not seem to be on the top of our Governments agenda. And there are still a lot of people worldwide that bully others over race, status and what they like to term as intelligence (I prefer to say they are blessed with a good memory.) However, Wales is a Country to be proud of with their amazing free prescription service, which makes sure poor people are not punished. The English Government however do not understand what it is like to struggle financially as they all come from wealthy families, so therefore getting rid of the NHS is something that would not affect them as they can afford private health care and no doubt prefer it.

I got in touch with a person that had really studied the Myles family history and he has not come across my Great Grandad. Looks like the scandal of the mixed marriage was covered up very well! I am proud of my family history as being mixed race makes you more human and less selfish.

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Sunday, 16 October 2011

Winifred Josephine Myles nee Melson Burmese French from Rangoon Burmah

We are searching for Burmese and French family related to Winifred Josephine Myles nee Melson. As you can see she was a beautiful lady and very elegant with her hat and gloves. Stunning vintage 1900 photograph that we will treasure forever.

My Nan Sybil Stanley Myles was born in Rangoon, Burma. She had two brothers. Sadly when Great Grandad (English) died of an illness that could have been cured if caught in time she took her own life to save her children from poverty. Back in those days mixed race marriages were not accepted in England. Nan suffered from the loss of her Farther and Mother and was put in care with her brothers. The foster parents were church people but obviously did not pray to the God that we do as they made the children sleep and eat in a shed. Can you imagine how hungry and cold they must have been. No wonder Nan suffered with arthritis so badly.

With all the problems in the world I feel very proud of the Burmese people and their strength. I don't think I know of one person that actually believes in fighting verbally for change in the world, which is very sad as we need to think about the world our children live in and protect them all. Every child deserves a decent and happy life no matter what background they come from and to feel safe and secure.

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Women to be proud of Aung San Suu Kyi Burmese people never give up on peace and hope

Aung San Suu Kyi a women to be proud of. You deserve the Pink Shoe Roll of Honour, but even more you should be heard and supported by all women and men that believe in peace and humanity for all! If only we had more women in our world like you, it would be a much better place. If men gave birth maybe then they would understand the true meaning of life and how to treasure it! I know there are some good men in our world, but sadly where I am sitting a lot of men seem to be destroying our world and not thinking about our children. All the money wasted on wars could have been spent on feeding our world. I would like to see women like Aung San Suu Kyi in power instead of men. Then we would be able to save the world instead of destroying it! People blame God for a lot of things. Free will is something we are blessed with, but something some people take advantage of because they are power, money hungry and selfish.


Rangoon is the birth place of my Nan and her brothers. Her Mother took her own life to save her children from poverty in the hope that the Grandparents would take pity on them and look after them. Sadly the Grandparents did not approve of their sons marriage and the mixed race children (Burmese, French and English.) How sad that they did not want to keep their dead son's children. At four years old my Nan cried for her mother and books were her only escape. She was made to sleep and eat in a shed with her brothers by church going foster carers in England. The English authorities knew of their sleeping and eating arrangements but made them feel they were lucky to be living in England as it was not their birth place and they were not pure English. When I worked in London a man called me Bubble because he thought I was Greek. I am proud to be part Burmese and proud of Aung San Suu Kyi, my Nan and Great Nan. Thank goodness they were eventually put with decent foster care people Granny Richardson. A lady with heart!

My cousin Sandra called my Nan the bag lady and was ashamed of her mixed race. But then that is what some rich and wealthy people are like, well the ones I have come across anyway. I have an open mind that there may be some good wealthy people with hearts, just not come across any yet.

How many times have people told me there is no point fighting for justice verbally and emotionally. And I have told them they are wrong, because I have won many verbal battles. It is amazing what you can achieve if only you try. Look at the Burmese people and how they never give up on freedom and humanity.

Burma is trying to get help for the common man and women. Giving rights to adults and children less fortunate! Wonderful speech. We need to all work together for the whole world not just as individual Countries.

The internet is an amazing thing. It gives people freedom of speech and hope. Thank you Google for my Blog. Only last week I was contacted by my Mum's cousin as she had seen a video I created searching for information on our Burmese, French and English background. I now have a photograph of my Great Nan who was part Burmese/French. And a lovely photo of my Nan when she was young as well as other family photos. Burma gained independence from British rule in 1948 and have been under military rule since a coup in 1962 led by Gen. Ne Win.

One day I hope to take my little girl to visit the place where her Great Great Grandmother came from and her Great Nan was born (Rangoon Burma.) Burmese people to be proud of! Hope for World Peace.

My Nan Sybil Stanley Myles with me when I was little.

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Punished for being English poor Great Britain

My Uncle told me when he went to Scotland the Scottish supported every Country except England.

Here is a video about how English people are Germans and the Welsh people are the real British people.

The UK sports shows all the problems with England, Scotland and Wales. Well done Wales with winning the latest Rugby match.

As a Mother I would like people to think about our children and to stop brainwashing them with past history, which has nothing to do with individual people and their birth place. We need to stop bullies not breed them. Let's all try to be proud to be British and human. To thank America for helping us in the war against Germany and to accept that not all German people supported Hitler! One thing I love about London is the fact that I never felt different because there are so many different nationalities living there. We all just got along and accepted each others culture. However I do have to say I came up against one National Front skin head man in his late 30's when I worked in a London bar who called me Bubble. He thought I was Greek. Good job I did  not tell him my Nan was part Burmese, French and English as he would have had a field day with that one. And I have come up against some racist English people. My Nan's own Grandparents turned their back on her and her brothers because they were mixed race. Sad world we live in!

I adore the video below of Wales V England. I have lived in Wales for eight years and I have to say I have some wonderful Welsh friends and neighbours. They made us very welcome in the little village. But sadly like every culture you are going to get people who just hate the English because they have been brainwashed into thinking everyone is the same.

My Auntie and Uncle came to visit me in Wales last year and I was late as usual. So they stopped off for a drink in our local pub. He asked the man behind the bad do you support local acts? The bar person was very friendly and said "yes we support local acts." As soon as my Uncle mentioned we were from England the bar person moved away and the conversation went dead.

My partner Jakson Lee has not gigged for over three months in Wales, he used to get gigs last minute. Not like England where he was busy all the time and booked well ahead! Going by what my Uncle told me is it any wonder we feel punished for being English? He is not only punished for being English but also for being a pub singer as he did not get through to Britain's Got Talent in 2010.

Here is one of Jakson Lees original songs Out of the darkness:

Here is Jakson Lee singing Butterfly Kisses the perfect wedding song for the farther of the bride.
Such a talent! Until Great Britain unites with Scotland, Wales and England he will never get the
work he deserves living in Wales, because he is not Welsh.

As for my Butterfly Lullaby book which promotes places in Wales and England, I ask the question, do you think Scotland, Wales and England will ever reunite and work as a team to get Great Britain on it's feet and out of this recession? I am proud to be human and have to say my poor Nan was made to sleep and eat in a shed with her brothers by rich and wealthy church going English people. But everyone is different. You cannot judge people from the place they were born or their culture. You have to give them a chance and start showing our children how not to bully people and judge them. All the time adults act this way we will never, ever rise above it and become a nation to be proud of. There is no pride in being a bully or being racist! A child told my little girl if you don't go to school you will not get a good job and will end up in a dirty/smelly house. Some people really have no idea of how difficult some peoples childhood is. There is a lot of snobbery surrounded by qualifications and status. The kindest people I have come across are those from poor backgrounds. Here is my video promoting Wales and Castell Coch in Cardiff.

Here is my video promoting The Upwey Wishing Well in England.

My family have grown up around bullies. Little Jodie who has Cystic Fibrosis and Diabetes had to leave school because a girl stopped her befriending anyone in her class. Her sister had to leave a school because she refused to join bullies. My Mother was bullied by a teacher and that and something else caused her mental breakdown. I have been bullied by Cyber Bullies, but I refuse to let them win. Keep fighting verbally for change and it will happen. People need to stop being selfish and start thinking about our children.

I hope the Olympics will bring Scotland, Wales and England together and all this silly proud to be .... will stop! Our children deserve a decent life no matter what colour, race or ability. We should all be working together to save all our school fields and butterfly meadows for our children's future.

And I for one love American people and all people with a kind and honest heart!

Sadly a meeting I had with International Business Wales years ago did not go well at all. I was left feeling talentless, worthless and humiliated as a women. Thankfully famous Robin Steven's who has over 30 years in Children's TV did not judge me and gave me a chance to work with him. He is on my website reading my story Colour me a fairies wish, and told me never to give up. Although Cyber Bullies struck and destroyed all my work and stopped me trading. I have learnt many lessons from this experience and who knows maybe one day the people that can change the world will sit up and listen and help those who have tried to help themselves and others, instead of just sitting on their pot of gold.

Thank you to the Welsh Assembly for treating everyone in Wales the same by giving them free prescriptions. Now that is something to be proud of!

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