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Bolsover Castle at night. Gorgeous English Castle. The tour guide said it was the most romantic castle in the world.
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Hand tapping on tables got my partner and the rest of his school sent home for bad behaviour when he was at school. Here he is thinking about the good old days.
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Little Snowflakes Daddy sings at the Bolsover Castle in England.
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1000 blogs by Christmas. I wonder if I can get to 1000 blogs by Christmas? How many blogs do you do a week? Is their a Guiness world record of blogs created in one day?
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Mybuilder.com UK has been recommended by my partners brother. Sadly he lives too far away and has too much work on to help us sort this house out, which I was seriously mis-sold on.
Justice is yet to be served, the rich are not allowed to treat the less fortunate the way they do and I intend on putting a stop to it! Most people would just plaster the walls and get out. But I am not passing this problem and the hell we have been through as a family onto any other poor family with children.
My partners brother has recommended the following work. Problem is with my partners awful job that does not always pay him on his commissions we could end up using the money borrowed for the house to stop us getting in debt again. Things need to change in the UK. This Olympic and Paralympic Inspire a new generation needs to be put into practise with families, making sure all children get the support they need.
Roof: Does the roof have felt? (No the Mortgage company did not pick up on it and the Insurance company refuse to pay out because of it!) Couple of the slates might have dropped also the ridge tiles look to be in a poor condition- they have been laid badly. There is no over hang on the roof tiles, either side! there should also be soffit or fascias boards,Take a look at your neighbours house to see what i mean. They may have rendered it to thick before & now it's flush with the tiles! Does the roof have any vents in the soffit boards (NO,) where the gutter runs along- front & back? Is there Defiantly no leaks in the loft? (Was told that the roof should be completely dark with no light, there is light coming in) Check any pipe work up there, & have you been up there when its raining, to check? Get a roofer in to see what he thinks! Good site for recommend trades is www.mybuilder.com - you can post on there what jobs you need doing & get competitive quotes, along with reviews on the standard of workmanship.
Right hand gable end: Cement render with cracks - it needs to be removed to expose brickwork- every time it rains, the water will get into the cracks & the moisture gets trapped in between the brick & render with no way of it escaping, making it constantly damp. This is the main factor for most of the problems you have on that side of the building.
Solutions: After render & plaster(internal) is removed & it has a good length of time to dry out( might be worth hiring a dehumidifier to help dry it out quicker) -Dpm ( damp proof membrane) can be installed into the bed joint of the brickwork, 120mm above ground level. -9x3 Air bricks or periscope vents, can be installed to provide ventilation beneath sub floor( below floor boards) -re plaster internal walls -repair or restore brickwork if needed! -re render with cement or lime mortar as this is a breathable- recommended (3/1 NHL natural hydraulic lime & well graded sharp sand) Your main problem is the render! Depending what's underneath, it might be worth thinking about taking the whole lot off & going back to brickwork. Amount of jobs I get in because of cement render problems!! But to be honest, it looks a lot worse than it is.
Flat roof has a 20 year guarantee Flat roof has 20 year guarantee, but has black mould coming in my daughters room. My friend said it could be because it was laid in the rain when I was buying the property. Any advice. I can send pictures!
MESSAGE TO ROOFER/BUILDER
I write a blog for Mothers and with support will be setting up a special network for struggling mothers world wide so Mothers can all earn from home by helping one another reach our goals for our children's sake. So if you do an excellent job I will promote you with the before and after pictures and your service + videos. We need an honest person as the house has made my little girl and I ill with asthma. Mis-sold and financially we are in big mess because of greedy employers. We really need a no win no fee solicitor! My daughter should not be crying because the house makes her ill. Compassion and help is what is needed in the UK! And above all the rich need to learn to share as why should poor people work for peanuts! It is wrong!
My mission is to change all children's and mothers lives worldwide. Because no family should suffer! 3.5 million children in Britain suffering from poverty. Why? It needs to stop and we need to team up and put a stop to it, helping mothers earn from the Internet in groups using the Library! Anything is possible if you care enough. Dream big, get things done and change the world!
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Score Free Internet Mentor, have you tried them? What is your story? Leave a comment below! Mothers need business help on the Internet as it can really destroy your sole if you are shiny and bad people see potential to rip you off. Sadly there are some controlling men in this world that have no respect for women. Thankfully Google is different! Everyone seems to think Children, Mothers (Families) are ok in the UK, well I and others are proof that we are not! Here is a scheme for overseas help. It sadly does not mention the UK whatsoever!
Google care about women in business and have set up a Women Entrepreneurs on the web to help them succeed. The plan started in India. We need a Global plan for all struggling mothers to network together under Google's Umbrella.
Here is a documentary about 3.5 million children living in poverty in the UK. So why is nothing being done to help Mothers earn from the Internet as a big compassionate network? Sadly most of these Mothers do not have access to the Internet. Would the libraries help out? I think they should. And I have the ideas to change our children's lives! Hope is something you have to fight for verbally!
I have just signed up to Score which I believe is run by Google. It offers free mentoring to help people get their business started on the Internet. Will keep you updated on my progress. Here is the website address if any Mothers need a helping hand. My dreams are for a better life for all our children around the world connecting under Google's big umbrella to stop the rain from destroying your families lives.
Here is my mind map. I very much hope that the UK and women around the world will like my ideas to help struggling mothers earn from home and network together under one Google Umbrella. I want the Internet Providers to put their hands in their pocket and fund this website as well as all the bad sites that destroyed my business and family values.
This is what greed has done to my little girl. Steeling from a Mother is one thing, but to steel from a child is an unforgivable offence. And compensation is long due with an apology for damages caused. Here is my little girl crying her eyes out and asking why will no one help me. The banks should not get away with charging 14% loans to struggling Mothers. The rich benefit from being rich and the less fortunate get stung every time. It is time the Council and Government supported the British Children as well as overseas and made sure we create a better world for all children. No child should suffer and my little girl is off school again today, this time because of the usual problems with her asthma cough that really stresses her out thanks to the damp and being mis-sold by the rich on our so called home.
I believe it is time for change! Justice should be served for the mortgage company failing to pick up on the problems with our house. My Mother in law had to get the sellers to lower their house price to take care of the damages on their house which had damp. Their mortgage company would not pay out unless the work was done. So what went wrong with mine. They knew I was selling my flat and was not a risk because I put down a huge lump sum which I worked damn hard for. Now my motgage is higher than it was because of poor wages and high costs of living. And the way the Internet stole from us.
I have rights as a Mother trying to support my child!
Look to see how badly some men in business treat us women/mothers. Like doormats!
Dream big, get things done and change the world! That is what I intend to do, because children and family need a true support network of Mothers working together to help one another succeed. We need to care about all children and not just our own! Leave a comment if you agree!
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When you have been invited to a wedding and life is knocking you down, what do you do? Plod on my friends! Don't worry about the outfit just go to your wardrobe and fish out something that will do. The long poppy dress I am wearing is something I picked up from a charity shop locally well over seven years ago. Same with the long black jacket. I think I paid £2 for the jacket and £2.50 for the dress. Jewellery is as old as the hills. Make-up, well nothing new there. Hair just the usual straighteners that I have had for years. Hair colour - oh natural with a few shades of grey. But guess what? My partner used to baby sit for a young lad and he told him that I looked stunning. I of course laughed and said go away I am old enough to be your mother. So it just shows you that you do not have to buy something new for a wedding if you are finding life financially draining! Put on that smile and the world will smile back!
OUR LITTLE GIRLS OUTFIT
I am so lucky as I have some wonderful friends who have kindly given me clothes for my little girl as they know that we have been slightly jinxed when it comes to bad luck. The dress my friend Mandy gave me when I visited her and family in Hastings a year ago. The pink jacket was from a friend from school who's daughter is in the same class. And she just wore her school shoes.
DADDY SING
My little girls Daddy sang at Bolsover Castle, sadly it was all upbeat stuff. I really wanted to hear him sing Butterfly Kisses as this was the ideal setting. Here he is singing, but sadly not at the castle.
Then I wanted to hear him sing Nessun Dorma. The bride, his cousin, just wanted upbeat music so sadly people did not get to hear him really shine the way he did at the Enchanted Manor back in 2009.
VENUE BOLSOVER CASTLE IN ENGLAND
I was told that the Bolsover castle is the most romantic castle in the world. We really enjoyed our visit and the tour guide told me some very interesting ghost stories so hopefully we will return for another visit.
I often giggle to myself when I write my blogs as it does not bother me if no one reads them, all that matters is that it gives me hope for a brighter tomorrow for my little girl and other children around the world. Google's saying is: Dream big get things done and change the world. I believe anything is possible if you can dream for long enough. The trick is to never let life get you down and take no notice of doubting Thoma's who cannot see your true potential. Because if Google let you shine that means you are worth something!
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Dream Big, get things done and change the world! This is the message I woke up to from Google this morning. Google has given us hope when no one else cared. They showcase my work and give me a voice which would otherwise not be heard. I am one of those people that refuses to be a victim and fights every day for a better future for not just my child but every child on this planet. And with Google's help it will happen! Google thank you for caring!
Too many people in the UK accept life as it is. One big struggle after another whilst the rich enjoy the poor suffer. Google must be the only business that I know of that offers everyone a chance at a better life. Sharing is caring. So don't give up. Teamwork is the only way forward for a better life for all our children.
BLOGGING CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE!
Archana Doshi started with just a blog. Now she is the founder of Archana's Kitchen and is very successful.
OUR FIRST GOOGLE CHECK (CHEQUE)
When we received our first Google check (cheque) I cried my eyes out. At last all this blogging and creating videos had opened the door to hope and a better future for my little girl and others. Without Google I would not be able to shine on line. They have given me a platform to show all our arts and crafts and stories.
THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON
I am a great believer in that things happen for a reason. No pain no gain. When you suffer it can make you a better and kinder person and that is why I refuse to sell our house with the problems it has without getting the work done and being truthful about what has happened. At least when I get to heaven I can say to God, no I did not go to church and pray all the time, but I did something better I worked every day not to just try and change our daughters life but to change all children's lives and to give Mothers hope for a better future for their loved ones. I learnt from the lessons you showed me and became a better person. Thank you! Although most of my Butterfly Lullaby books are damaged from the damp in the house I am glad that God has opened my eyes to the pain poor people suffer and the need to do something about it.
I USED TO BLAME MEN, NOW I KNOW WOMEN NEED TO CHANGE TOO
I used to blame men for treating me and the people I love so badly, but now I know why some men get away with it, which is all down to women. Especially Western Women. They need to change and stop acting and dressing badly so Mothers and Children's rights are brought back and our kids have a chance at a happy life with true old fashioned family values. A real Mother and Father who put children first! If all women dress and act for respect men will not see us as brainless pieces of meat that they can just disrespect and treat badly. Our children deserve a happier path than ours. Especially little girls!
IF ONLY THE COUNCILS AND GOVERNMENT WERE LIKE GOOGLE
If only the Councils and Government cared about changing our world for our children as much as Google, imagine what an impact that would have. Without Google we would have no voice to speak out against the rich and powerful who care not about our children.
MOTHERS MIND MAP FOR CHILDREN AND FAMILY VALUES
I have a big dream and that is to create with Googles help a website shop for struggling Mothers and children. A place where Mothers around the world can help one another earn from home so we can all be with our children. Imagine a huge big website shop where you can sell old and new things with no fees because advertising pays for the IT side. A place where our children can shine safely. No more being told that we cannot video them at the Grand Theatre when they sing for the first time because our world is so unsafe. But the videos being placed under Googles umbrella and protection. Keeping our children safe from harm and allowing them to shine by creating art and craft videos, song videos and even a children's Top of the Pops. We need it! Imagine being able to sell downloads of original songs, audio stories, E Books, art and craft templates. When you list things for sale you can upload your video to go with it too. There is so much that is possible with Googles support! And forget Facebook as it is totally plastic. It is not a network for people that care about others. Google+ is the only way forward, sharing is caring.
What is your story? Are you a team player? Do you believe in working together to create a better world for all our children? If so get in contact through Google+ - see link below!
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Mortgage valuations what's the truth? My Mother in law was told by the Mortgage company that the damp had to be sorted out before they would lend on the property. Therefore she had to ask the sellers to reduce the selling price to cover this work. And even when my friend sold her cottage the first thing the Mortgage company did was check the roof and for damp. It is in their interest to invest money on good properties. So the question is why did my lending bank not complete the valuation properly? Was it because they knew I was selling my flat and therefore I would not be a risk to them as they were getting nearly all the money back? Going over old documentation I found a letter I wrote to my Solicitor asking about the damp in the house. His reply was that my Mortgage company told me their was damp. Sorry but there is no written record of damp and nothing in the valuation! The builders were just fobbing me off saying it was condensation for years. Only found out this year that previous owners have used bathroom sealant on the slate tiles to stop it leaking. And last year the Insurance Company refused to pay out as their is no felt under the slate roof tiles. Question is why was this not picked up in the valuation and what is the point of paying Insurance if we are not covered?
I think it is time to demand justice for house buyers that have been ripped off. The ceiling in the bedroom with the worst damp looked brand new as if it had been replaced, whilst the other ceilings looked dull in colour and quite old fashioned. I believe one of the owners replaced the ceiling in the bedroom to hide the fact the roof needed replacing. The owners I purchased from were only here for five months in total, now that is suspect. No one goes to the expense of buying a house just to move five months later.
Children and families should be protected. I want justice and I am damn well going to get it as no one makes my little girl cry and gets away with it.
The previous owners conned me on the boiler which I wanted to pay to have checked and they wangled their way out of it knowing full well that they would have to replace the boiler as we did when we moved in. Pretending to be good people and saying they would pay for the Gas check. She admitted their was water coming in but said it was normal. I was pregnant at the time and stressed out with problems with renting my flat out and having financial worries so I let it go, even though I had just paid out for brand new boiler in my flat because they had also stitched me up! The Shower never worked. The Wendy House I paid for had no concrete underneath. The tumble dryer did not work either, which I paid money for. So having to pay for a new roof is just damn right taking the biscuit!
All I can do is plod on with my business. Google is our only hope for a better future for us and others that have been in the same situation. This stressful road has taught me that justice needs to be served and that I must set something up for struggling Mothers to make sure they can provide for their children with Googles help.
Just take a look at how some people in power treat Mothers and Children!
Here is just a glimpse at My Mothers Mind Map for supporting Mothers and children around the world!
There is much more to add and I hope our daughters see a better future than we have had to live in!
Don't be a victim, speak out and fight for justice. Leave a comment below and share your story and together we can create a better world for our children!
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I know my Asthma! And don't need anyone telling me what causes it as I know full well why I am having to take the strong Symbicort inhaler now! When for years I managed to control my asthma as I kept away from Cigarette smoke and animals. Imagine going from not needing inhalers at all. To having to use the ventolin constantly! I only used inhalers if I fell ill with bad colds and flu which affected my breathing and suffered infections. Some asthmatics may suffer attacks from stress, but I don't! It is purely allergy related. Do I have stress in my life, hell yes but I am not the sort of person to give up as I have a child to look after!
Today I am sending a letter to my GP and requesting a details report of how many inhalers I have ordered over the past 10 years. This will prove that when I was working in the School Canteen that my asthma got out of control. As I was waking up at 2.00 am in the morning unable to breathe. And I was always out of breathe. I know the damp in the house makes my asthma bad too, but my asthma was worse when I worked their. The canteen was run down with asbestos on the roof. I remember the water dripping in and it fell on my pudding. I asked can I have another pudding and was told no. I now wish I had not eaten the pudding and wonder if the rain water was contaminated with the asbestos from the leaking roof?
Here is my little girl crying her eyes out and asking why will no one help her. I have a solution for struggling Mothers but the question is do people care enough about our children to support it?
In this video below I talk about how bad men in business have bullied me and tried to steel from me. Stopping me from providing for my child.
I have tried so hard to earn a living from home it is just not funny. The brick walls that come up are all thanks to ruddy men in power. Yes I know there are good men, just wish they would fight for Mothers and Children verbally instead of telling us they are good show us!
Here is a part of my mind map for a website that cares about children and mothers that need that helping hand. You can't trust rich people as they are obsessed with money!
I know my Asthma, do you? Leave a comment below.
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Slate tiles worth £1 each, so don't get ripped off by roofers that say they will take all the rubbish away when they replace your roof. Insurance company told me that the tiles would pay for the roof to be replaced. We all know what too many men are like in business, especially if you are a women. So ladies watch out for the sharks! A kind builder informed me that a good slate tile is worth £1 each when previous roofers have tried to make out they are worth nothing so they can profit from them their end.
In this video below you will see the damage to the house. I got totally ripped off by previous owners and the ruddy bank! But they are not getting away with it as this Mother is so angry right now she is pledging verbal war on anyone that abuses the justice system for financial gain.
My flat roof is meant to be guaranteed for 20 years. He came out and blamed the damp on the other roof. He took no photos of the flat roof just the main roof to obviously get work. Well my Mother in law got on the phone to them and he is coming out again. No doubt he will spin the usual line of can't help as these people just simply do not understand the meaning of guarantee. Tell me your stories. Leave a comment below with a link to your blog.
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Frog Princess Miss England. Imagine meeting the lady that runs Miss England at a wedding! You know how you meet someone for the first time, but it is as if you have known them for years. Well, we just seemed to hit it off on the friendship side straight away. And her partner was such a lovely guy too. Really nice couple, well suited. It was like fate had frown us in the same direction.
The Wedding was outside on castle grounds. I was told by one of the tour guides that this castle was one of the most romantic castles in the world, haunted too, which I find fascinating. And it certainly lived up to my expectations. We got talking and she asked me what I did. I told her I blog a lot and fight verbally for women's rights. She laughed and replied "Well you will not like me very much then." I replied "Why." "I run Miss England!" But then I look at Miss World and compare it to the sites on the Internet that destroy families and children's lives and think at least these ladies have to show off a talent using their brain, as well as their beauty and it is just a bit of fun! I admire Angie, she is a lovely lady with good values in life. And I want to read her book. Surprisingly enough she has a Brother and Sister I believe who suffer from schizophrenia. So she knows all too well the pain some poor people go through and it was refreshing talking to her as my Sister and Mother suffer from this lonely illness too. I cannot believe what the Government is doing to these poor people, they seriously do not understand what this illness is and how these ill people are just unable to work.
My sister wrote a beautiful poem about how she has mirrored our mothers illness. I wish I could wave a magic wand and make them both better. If I had money I believe I would be able to experiment with hypnotherapy on my sister and get her life back. She needs to block out the past from bad evil men and the damage they have done to her life. Then she can live and smile again.
Here is Bolsover Castle in Yorkshire. It is truly beautiful. The magical place where I met Angie Beasley who runs Miss England and is the author of the Frog Princess.
Angie and her partner kept asking when is your other half going to sing? Sadly he was told he was only allowed to sing up tempo music. No Nessun Dorma which really would have suited this venue. So Angie if you read this here he is singing Nessun Dorma. I prefer him singing ballads as it shows his range.
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J K Rowling depression charity. I heard on the news that J K Rowling with all her billions is still suffering from depression. They made a good point in that how can she still be depressed when she has everything? To me personally anyone that is struggling through life and not getting the support they deserve is going to be fed up and sometimes this gets mixed up with depression. Instead of popping happy pills the UK needs to help people get out of financial difficulties by making it easier for them to earn a decent salary. Just maybe if people stopped wasting their time idolising the rich and famous and actually spent more time trying to help the less fortunate we would have a better world for our children!
My Mother in law suffers from depression and has done since a little girl. I analyse her life and think no wonder she is depressed as she has a lot of financial stress. She came round to the house unexpectedly and was shocked at the amount of damp we are living in and asked do you need any help. And I am thinking yes I need some ruddy justice for what the Internet did to my business stopping me from Trading and also help with fighting the mis-sold problem on the property. But no she was not asking that, she was asking if I needed help with depression because the house is a mess etc. Yes the house gets me down and I cannot stand the way it makes my little girl ill with asthma and the fact that I have gone from no inhalers to really strong ones thanks to the house and working in the run down school canteen. If I was to look at my doctors records I would see that in just that year of working at the school my asthma went from only taking inhalers when I was ill to all the time constantly and being unable to breathe.
So no I do not need help with depression as I am not depressed I am just being ripped off by the rich which I refuse to let go. I don't have time to feel sorry for myself I am too busy fighting to create a better life for my little girl. Here she is crying her eyes out. I do understand that depression is an illness and I am glad that I do not suffer from it. But I also understand that people that suffer from depression usually have a very stressful life with many money worries. There is always someone worse off than yourself my Nan used to say and this is very true. I don't have a lot of time for rich and famous people as they in my view should be doing more to help Mothers earn from home so they can support their children. If only J K Rowling would sponsor the CRB check website for struggling Mothers and children then that would be something to be proud of. Mum's need to earn from home with no damn fees. It is time to stop being selfish and start supporting. And children deserve to shine in a safe environment away from the selfish adults that put trash before kids. You know those sites that destroy families by encouraging grown ups to cheat.
Here is my little girl crying her eyes out and asking why will no one help me. The Council and Government could do more. But sadly it is run by rich people who have no idea what financial struggle is all about. Heck the rich make it difficult for the less fortunate to live as they pay such awful wages.
Well J K Rowling if you read this blog. I am sorry but I cannot feel sorry for you. Everyone has pain in their life. And some worse than others. I feel blessed that I do not suffer from my Sisters and my Mothers illness which is very serious. Imagine your friends refusing to let you bring your sister out for a night out because she suffers from an illness that makes her hear voices. But when she was well she used to always come out with my friends and I. Schizophrenia has to be the worst illness on the planet. These people are really isolated and discarded by society. Depression is nothing compared to this illness. The pain these people go through is just unbearable. My sister tells me she just wants to die. She cannot take the voices any more. Now that is someone I feel sorry for, not J K Rowling who had a lucky break and is still harping on about depression.
My sister wrote a very sad poem about how she has mirrored our mothers illness. It is called Mother. My partner turned it into a very haunting song. This song was played on local radio a year or so ago.
If I only had the money to try and help these people. All they need is some compassion and understanding. I believe if they had hypnotherapy treatment they would be able to get over the past that makes them so ill and move forward. But the problem is the tablets numb out all emotions. I miss my sister and the way she used to laugh.
If only British women would fight verbally for our rights as Mothers to support our children, instead of idolising Kate Middleton and J K Rowling. Here is part of my story and how some men can be total control freak bullies. We need to change them and change women so our children have a better future.
When you look at how the rich shut the door to quickly you have to question does money make people bad?
I know that if I had the support I could turn peoples lives around by helping Mothers earn from home using the Internet with no damn fees.
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