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Thursday 20 August 2020

KINDNESS EXAM (QUALIFICATION)

KINDNESS EXAM (QUALIFICATION)


I am currently liaising with London Mums Magazine, and Hypnotherapists with regards to requesting a Kindness Exam (Qualification) for State Educated Teachers, and Governments around the world. My question is, how many children are having to have therapy because of State Education? And what are we going to do about this? Surely, we can make State Education KINDER!

Lucky for me, I know two ex teachers that were adored by their students. Why? Because they were KIND!

We have some wonderful teachers, but sadly some do not have the patience to teach children. Especially, children who are Dyslexic and suffer with Autisum etc. Even Academic children are stressed out in British Schools. All children need an education that builds them up, not tears them down. 

When I went to one teacher and begged him not to force our daughter to stand up in class and say her Times Tables out loud, because it stressed her out. And the children made fun of her. 
He said, "I AM STRESSED OUT, I HAVE TO TEACH 30+ CHILDREN!"
This teacher knew full well our daughter struggled. So why humiliate her in front of the whole class? 
How I feel for children in State School
Sadly, all these school checks are stressing teachers out. Which is not good for our children!

Monica and I feel our Governments would benefit from taking this KINDNESS EXAM too. As we need people in power who have kindness in their heart. So they can help create a better, kinder world.  Some people seem to think that Elites have better morals and values. But that is just not the case. Money is not the be all and end all. Children and family are far more important than MONEY! 

A while ago I wrote to Prince Harry, via London Mums Magazine. And asked for his help to create a better, kinder State Education System. Sadly, he declined. All too often I hear the words NO by British Elites, instead of YES to helping a good cause. 

Both Monica and I have experienced a bad school system for our children. And questioned it. As mothers we cannot bear to see children suffer. I know a lot of people that have had a bad school life. 
It breaks my heart!

Here is Monica's motherly experience of British Education. This is certainly worth a read:

https://londonmumsmagazine.com/mums-tips/schooling/why-in-the-british-school-system-a-good-school-might-be-better-than-an-outstanding-school/

                   
                                                        My letter to Prince Harry:                                                 

I was lucky enough that I did not get bullied in school. Or pressured. 
So I dream of a happy school life for every child. 
Even academic children are passing out due to having to learn far too many subjects. And exam pressures! 

 

Although I was not bullied or pressured in school, I was taught ITA English Twaddle, which I would like an apology for by 
our
British State Government! 

One day I hope to encourage parents to try my free Butterfly Lullaby method of making reading fun. 
I am so proud that our clever Dyslexic daughter now loves to read, and has a little Library of books in her room. Her creative writing is off the chart.

MOST CHILDREN LEARN TO READ WITH THE GUIDANCE FROM LOVING PARENTS

The fact is, some teachers (academics) cannot teach a Dyslexic child to read. Their methods are for children that do not struggle to read. And sadly, some academics just do not have the love or patience in their hearts to be able to deal with Dyslexic, or Autistic children. Things need to change with our education system! The sooner the better.

THIS IS HOW I GOT OUR WONDERFUL, DYSLEXIC DAUGHTER, TO LOVE READING AND WRITING:

https://butterflylullaby.blogspot.com/2017/11/free-reading-help-for-dyslexic-children.html

GET YOUR CHILD TO SING THE STORY,
MAKING READING FUN!



For every word your child cannot read, write it down, and ask them to write it out three times. 
Then get them to have a go at spelling it. 

You will be amazed at how this method helps them to read:



Our daughter is now in her late teens. I am so proud of what she has achieved. 
Her creative writing skills and Dyslexia make it possible for her to create amazing 
songs like this one:


CELEBRATE BEING DYSLEXIC OR AUTISTIC ... BECAUSE YOU HAVE A SUPERPOWER!

KINDNESS CREATES A BETTER EDUCATION AND WORLD!

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Sunday 16 August 2020

Rose Quote and Meaning


'The ROSE thorns are no defect, but what keeps the petals from falling.'

Quote by Melody Angel Bainbridge-Todd.
https://www.instagram.com/melody.angel.art/?hl=en

The meaning: A ROSE is a symbol of love and hope. The thorns are the roses strength and protect the rose, so the petals don't fall.

Councillor Kevin Griffiths asked our Melody Angel to draw something for the elderly to cheer them up. Children in Wales have been asked to draw pictures with messages of hope for the elderly. 




I love the way our Melody created her own unique quote!

Singer, Avis Scott (kind lady), our Melody Angel, and her Dad will be recording the song ...
What a wonderful world. It would mean a lot if we could have some drawings 
by children for the video with messages of hope.

PARENTS/GUARDIANS CAN SEND ME THE DRAWINGS BY UPLOADING 
CHILDREN'S DRAWINGS TO THIS GROUP:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/artfamilyfriendly




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FLEXISCHOOLING PETITION UK

FLEXISCHOOLING PETITION UK



Perfection is overrated. The message inside is far more important. Some academics will pick fault in this video, and point out that where I said Dyslexic, instead of Dyslexia. 
But this is my point. They are missing the fuller picture!  

State Education is great for popular children, or the ones with thick skins. But for children that are shy, and generally self-concious ... School can be a daughting and scary place. Many children today are really stressed out by our State Education System. Too many exams. Even academic children are suffering. One teen told me she nearly passed out due to all the pressure. For Dyslexic children and children with Autisum, State Education sadly does not cater for these children. Mental Health is currently out of control, too many exams to master what they are good at. And we are ignoring it! 

I sadly know too many people with Mental Health Issues, all caused by State Education and other issues. So I will not be gagged! It is time our Teachers and Governments were given a TEST. And expected to take a Kindness Qualification Exam. To see if they are fit for the JOB!




Watch this space. Will we get a Kindness Exam for our teachers and Governments? I hope so, because then we will see some important changes, that are much needed in our Education System!

P.S. If your child is Dyslexic and is struggling to read. It is important you tell the teachers not to force your child to read aloud. And not to force them to say their Times Tables in front of the class, when that teacher knows damn well that your child struggles. But to give your child one to one help. Building confidence is vital!

Our daughter hated reading in school. She now has a Library of books. And is the most amazing creative writer! This is how I got our child to love reading:


SCRAPBOOK WITH ME, SHARON J. BAINBRIDGE: http://www.facebook.com/people/Sharon-J-Bainbridge/595087537 www.butterflylullaby.co.uk, fairy songs, fairy portraits, art and crafts for children, music, fairy music, true stories, poems, children's stories, free fairy network for businesses and stay at home Mum's (Mom's) scrapbook layouts every photo tells a story

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